Here is our 2018 RVA Shop Local GIft Guide! As you can tell, everything is an experience. I don't know about you, but my life and house is overrun with THINGS,but I, like everyone else, always treasure a fun experience so I wanted to help you gift happy memories. Happy Shopping!
For The Women In Your Life
1. Sugar and Hive Beauty Bar
.2. Vitality Float Spa
3. Fighting Gravity Fitness
4. River City Food Tours
For The Men in Your Life
1. Colonial Shooting Range
2. The Circuit Arcade Bar
3. Breakout Games
4. Richmond Funny Bone
For The Little Ones
1. Family pass to The Children's Museum
2. Melody Magic Music Studio
3. Romp n Roll
4. Pump It Up
For The Older Kids
1. Peak Experiences
3. Treetop Zoofari Zipline and Adventure Park
4. Spatacular Parties
Christmas is upon us! I often think about how lucky I feel to live in such a cool area where there are so many fun things to do year round, but Christmas time is where I think Richmond really shines. I've made a list of all the things that you should absolutely not miss this year. Throw those gifts into some gift bags and go out and be merry!
1. AR Workshop
There is absolutely something therapeutic about creating something beautiful. I made a Christmas sign here a few weeks ago and it really put me into the spirit. To find a workshop, visit www.arworkshop.com/richmond/
2.Carriage Rides at Stony Point
While you are in Stony Point, stop by for a horse drawn carriage ride. They are FREE and what on earth makes you feel more Christmas-y than riding in a one horse open sleigh, over the hills we go.... Alright so it won't be a sleigh, but still.
3. The Grand Illumination at The James Center
This Friday, November 30th come check out the Grand Illumination at The James Center from 5:50-7:00 pm. There will be different characters walking around the kids and hot cocoa.
4. Richmond's Tacky Light Tour
The Tacky Light Tour. If you have never done it, you need to.Like tonight. You can make your own list and do it yourself or go through a limo service to take you through Richmond's tackiest (but coolest) houses. For a list of the houses and info on limo services check out www.richmond.com/holiday/tacky-lights/.
5.Maymont Holiday Tours
Take a tour of the Maymont Mansion all decked out in holiday decor.Warning: you may instantly feel underwhelmed when you get home.
6. Christmas Town
Alright, so I know Busch Gardens isn't in Richmond, but it's only an hour or less away and it is amazing! There isn't an inch that is not covered in lights and they have great shows.
7. The Jefferson Hotel. Filled with Christmas trees, poinsettas, and lights, the hotel is a sight to see during the Christmas season. They also have musical performances coming in throughout the next month and you have to check out the Gingerbread display.
8. Ice Skating
What is more fun than falling on your butt on cold ice??? Nothing! We have a couple of great outdoor rinks. For the West Enders, head on over to Short Pump( http://www.westbroadvillageicerink.com/), if you are in the Downtown area check out RVA on Ice (https://www.facebook.com/RVAOnIce/), and last but not least there is a rink at Stony Point mall (https://bit.ly/2r8cCJB) so you can go have fun and get some shopping done!
9. Visit Ol' Saint Nick
My family loves the Children's Museum of Richmond. They have so many cute activities for the kids with Santa- Sunrise with Santa, Sunset with Santa, The Fawn Shop, etc. They also offer Sensitive Santa for our kiddos who cannot do the long lines, bring lights, and noises that come with your typical Santa visit. As a special needs mom, being able to take my kiddo to do this means the world to me.
I mostly hope that you enjoy this wonderful time with your family and remember the reason for the season!
Thank you to everyone who joined us at our relaunch event on November 13th at The Wine Loft. I had such a great time getting to meet you all ! We had some really fun vendors and a great photo booth, where ladies got to take some fun pictures all night.
The Wine Loft is so cozy and inviting and makes for a great relaxed evening. Everyone enjoyed all of their wine options and great appetizers. The staff is also super accommodating and friendly.
This was my first event with The Housewives in The City and the community has been so amazing and receptive. I loved watching everyone have fun and meet new people, while discovering some great businesses. I am looking forward to the next event on December 12th at Hardywood Brewery. For more information, please check out bit.ly/2Kbzhx9.
Rodan+Fields with Wendy, Paula, and Missy
Websites: www.wvokac6.myranf.com, www.paulay.myrandf.com,
Created by Dermatologists, Rodan+Fields is well loved and well known by everyone as a skincare line with something for everyone. They also have regimen that's address specific concerns- acne, wrinkles, dullness, and redness.They also have the extremely popular Lash Boost serum that is known to dramatically increase the length and fullness of your eyelashes.
Dogwood Bluepearl Veterinary Emergency and Specialty Center
Dogwood Bluepearl is a full service veterinary hospital in Richmond. They offer specialized veterinary services such as chemotherapy, dialysis, cataract removals, and knee and back surgeries. They also have an emergency department for those unforeseeable events that happen. If your furry family members has any chronic health conditions, such as diabetes or heart failure, these can also be managed her. Blue Pearl truly is a one stop shop for your pet!
Shannon Williams with Deep Roots Salon/ A Laura D's Salon
Make appointments at: (804)559-4247
Deep Roots Salon is a beautiful salon with a great spa like atmosphere. They offer hair services, waxing, and eyelash care (extensions and lifts). You can refer back to my blog post about my experience getting an eyelash lift with Shannon to learn more about that process, but rest assured- I LOVE IT and will continue going back to them.
My Nourishing Kitchen
My Nourishing Kitchen believes in the power of healthy foods. They offer meal prep workshops where you come in and are led through meal prepping multiple meals for your family for the upcoming week. All of the food and necessary tools are provided, you simply show up and have a great time cooking and relaxing! All meals are plant based and allergy friendly!
Beautycounter with Nina Hodge
Beautycounter believes in providing products that you can use without fear! They provide skin care and makeup lines without all of the scary ingredients. They have something for everyone in the family- you, your husband, and even the baby.
Vitality Float Spa
Relaxation at its best! Located in The Fan, Vitality Float Spa offers many different services- float therapy, massages, herbal foot floats, Reiki, infrared sauna, prenatal massages, and reflexology. The staff could not be more friendly or more knowledgeable. Just head in, get some herbal tea, and float your cares away!
F45 Training will be coming to the Richmond area next month and you are going to want to try them out! They are a HIIT (High Intensity Interval Training) functional group training program. According to their website, "This combination of interval, cardiovascular and strength training has been proven to be the most effective workout method for burning fat and building lean muscle." Definitely a good thing to try post Thanksgiving!
Hott Shotz Photo Booths
I simply cannot say enough good things about Hott Shotz Photo Booths. I have seen a lot of photo booths at wedding, events, and birthdays, but they have never been as cool as the one that was at our event! I think pretty much every guest took several pictures. Not only do they have photo booths, but they also have outdoor movie screen packages to make for the perfect summer party.
Our Featured Charity
The James House
The James House offers help to those affected by domestic violence, sexual violence, and stalking in the Greater Tri-Cities region of Virginia. Some of the options that they provide include safety planning, emergency shelter, support groups, children's programs, and case management.
Allison Bell Photography
Allison Bell is known for her amazing wedding pictures, but also offers photography services for all of those moments that you want captured. She was such a pleasure to work with! Please check out her page for more info on contacting her for your photography needs!
Looking forward to seeing you all next month!
Let me start off by saying that I am not typically a person that relaxes easily or well. My idea of me time is pinteresting gluten free recipes for my kids while watching TV and folding clothes. When I found out that I was going to do a one hour float therapy session at Vitality Float Spa, I was actually stressed out by the thought of sitting completely still for one hour- who would do all the things??? Then, I started googling and read that some people hallucinate during the experience... Great. I'll be floating naked and seeing/hearing things that aren't there.
With all of that being said, I did go and instantly felt relaxed as soon as I walked in. The first thing that I saw was a giant, beautiful living wall and then I was greeted by two of the kindest, most calming women, who put up with this nervous nelly asking them about hallucinating in an Epsom salt bath. Spoiler alert, do not worry about it- they explained that the "hallucinations" that some people experience are more like lucid dreams that happen right before falling asleep. I was given this wonderful chamomile tea and led back to my room where they instructed me to put Vaseline on any cuts or scrapes that I might have(to prevent stinging) and gave me ear plugs to protect my ears. I had envisioned sitting in a very small, dark pod with absolutely no sounds in the background, but was so pleasantly surprised to find out that this can be completely what you want/need it to be. Want lights and gentle music in the background? No problem. Want complete darkness and silence? Also no problem. After I had asked pretty much every question I could think, it was time to do or die ….not really, it was just time to get into the freaking water. I sat down in the warm water and instantly starting floating. I realized that I was so nervous that I was tensing up and pulling my shoulders to my ears so I had to talk myself down and remind myself to just breathe and relax. And I did. I occasionally would find my mind wondering to appointments or kids or food and I would stop myself and try to clear my mind. The hour honestly flew by and I reluctantly got out. I felt so completely relaxed and a little glowy when I left. I had some emails to send and errands to run and I realized that as the afternoon went on, I felt very clear minded and a little less tense than usual. I didn't have some insane zen experience where I saw visions or transcended to some other worldly level (thank God), but I did finally take an hour to completely quiet my mind and let go of everything and just float and it really made me realize how important it is to take more time to do that.
So what exactly is float therapy?
A large bath tub or "pod" that is filled with water that is heated to skin temperature and filled with 1000 lbs of Epsom salt, allowing you to float gently on top.
How does floating benefit you?
I can say from experience that being in this space of no distractions allowed my mind to just kind of quiet itself for a bit and have a break, which NEVER happens otherwise. While floating, around 80-90% of neuromuscular activity is decreased- isn't that crazy?!?. It has also been shown to help with chronic pain, anxiety and depression, PTSD, and athletic recovery.
What should you do before your session?
I was told to avoid caffeine for about 3 hours prior to floating. I would also suggest not eating a very heavy meal right before your session.
How often should you do it?
I was told to continue reaping the benefits, you should go at least three times a month.
Although I was a little apprehensive, I thoroughly enjoyed floating and I definitely will be adding this more frequently to my schedule. Vitality Float Spa also offers massage, cupping, Reiki, yoga, and acupuncture- pretty much your one stop shop for relaxation. You can check them out for yourself and make an appointment at www.vitalityfloatspa.com.
It's November 2nd- that day where we magically go from Halloween Town to Christmas as fast as we can rip down our spider web decorations. I'm not mad about it either, I love everything about this time of year- the movies, decorations, family gatherings,etc. But with each passing year as we have had more children and more responsibilities, I have noticed that the holidays feel much less...holiday-y than they used to and more like another job. I hear this from other women all the time; we are all already so busy and run down than when something extra comes along it just about takes us out. I'm putting myself back on my list this Christmas and I'm going to share some ways that you can too.
Keep up (or start) your fitness routine
This is absolutely crucial for me. When you aren't moving your body, you just don't feel your best. Combine that with the high sugar foods that come along with Thanksgiving and Christmas and you just end up feeling sluggish and bleh. So find something active that you love doing and make it a priority everyday. Extra points if it's a group activity, like a class or a team, which has been shown to decrease feelings of depression and anxiety.
Simplify and Delegate
We women can do it all, but we cannot do it ALL well. Try a grocery delivery service, like shop.shipt.com/ and have them arrive right to your doorstep. An even better option would be to order already made healthy meals (gluten and dairy free) through www.dailyjars.com/#mailing-list-module. I used Daily Jars while doing an elimination diet and there is no way I could have done it without them. Another great Richmond option is mynourishingkitchen.com/ . According to their website,"You’ll assemble six (6) whole-food, plant-based, organic, allergen friendly, freezer meals in less than two hours that you and your family will enjoy. Each meal serves 4-6 people, and some of our soups, and stews serve even more. All of this for as little as $4-$5 per serving!".
My husband and I do weekly date nights because we absolutely have to and I encourage you to do so as well. If you aren't married than make sure you are having regular girl's nights. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something that connects you with your loved ones. We went to the new restaurant Perch this week and we seriously left there feeling like cool, carefree twenty somethings and that's definitely NOT us. If you haven't been there, I highly encourage you to check it out( www.perchrva.com/) and you MUST get the bread pudding cake. Everything was amazing from start to finish and the space itself was so serene. Date nights allow us to step out of our crazy, hectic days and just be for an evening.
Let go of the FOMO
Fear of missing out is a real thing and I think that social media only makes it worse. Trust me, I know. There are SO many holiday activities that there is absolutely no way that you can do it all and you have to accept it. Pick just a few of your absolute favorites and ones that you will actually enjoy, not just activities that will produce cute pictures. If you fill up your schedule with events every day, you and your kids are going to end up tired and you will lose the chance to truly enjoy anything.
This time of the year is so special and we only have so many Christmases with our loved ones - I want to be truly present and happy for all of them so I know that I have to take care of myself first. Oh, and I think you can and should decorate as early as you want to so don't judge me when you see my IG pictures of my tree up next week.
I have small children so I don't get out to brunch very often (I often feel quite lucky to eat semi warm pizza standing up), but I thoroughly enjoyed my experience at Sedona Taphouse.
My husband went straight for the Southwest Steak Omelette, but I'm a simple girl and can't turn away bready heaven. And yes, that is Nutella smothering my French toast....to.die.for. There really is something for everyone on their menu- from truffle fries to crab cake sliders to omelettes. They also offer a lot of gluten free and vegan options, which I can appreciate as one who has done an elimination diet in the past and realized how hard it can be to dine out with restrictions. Want to meet your girlfriends for a fun brunch? They have a super fun Blood Mary bar as well as over 200 craft beers ( I almost had to leave my husband there).
The restaurant itself is adorable, with barn wood and lots of industrial flavor. There is an outdoor seating area with a fire pit that just screams fall date nights. The atmosphere is honestly just as important to me as the quality of food and I felt very relaxed here. For Sunday brunch, they even have live jazz music. I must say that I'm not typically a huge live music person- it's often too loud and makes it hard to carry on a conversation and to be honest, I'm a chatty Kathy. However, this was not overpowering and just added to this relaxed, but cool vibe.
If you haven't tried them out, I strongly encourage you to do so-you will not be disappointed.
I have quite the unfortunate set of eyelashes, they truly are horizontal with almost no curl whatsoever. I've curled my eyelashes and tried every mascara known to man with very little success. So when I heard about eyelash lifts, I was pretty excited and wanted to try it out for myself. I went to visit Shannon Williams, who by the way is the most pleasant person to sit and chit chat to for an hour, at Deep Roots Salon. I have seriously NEVER been happier with my eyelashes and I feel like it makes such a difference. Yesterday I had to run out sans makeup, which I never do because I look like a cast member from The Walking Dead, and I kind of felt a little pulled together just because my lashes look so amazing. Since my results were so great, I wanted to share my experience with you all!
What is a lash lift exactly?
It's a low-maintenance, natural lash procedure for eye opening results by curling, lifting, and shaping your eyelashes. **Count me in!!**
How long does the process take?
From start to finish it took about an hour, but it's a very comfortable process. You are able to sit with your eyes closed the entire time and just relax.
How do you take care of them ?
I was told to avoid getting them wet for about 24 hours and after that, resume normal skin care.
How long do the results last?
Between 6-8 weeks. Shannon recommended scheduling your next appointment after about 8 weeks. You guys, an hour every 2 months to have these kind of eyelashes?!?! That is ahmazing.
How much does it cost?
Just a lash lift is $65 and if you add a lash tint it is $80. Seriously, it is worth every single penny especially when you compare that to getting eyelash extensions, which will set you back a cool $200 an appointment.
To schedule your own appointment call Deep Roots Salon at (804)559-4247 AND if you schedule your appointment anytime in November and mention RVA Housewives you get %20 off! I highly recommend checking out some insane before and after pictures at https://www.instagram.com/shannon.deeproots/.
When I got engaged I had no idea the importance of picking a photographer. I mean, it's someone taking a picture- I take pictures with my phone all day long right??? *Insert eye roll at my 22 year old brain*. Thankfully a good friend of mine recommended Shot With A Bow photography and I began my long relationship with the woman who captures all of my family's important moments.
On our wedding day Mary Alice kept me calm and gave me space to choose what I really wanted. Later when I was a brand new mama with two wild boys she didn't bat an eye when they couldn't sit still for longer than 2.5 seconds. After I brought home my baby girl from a lengthy NICU stay and just felt like I was missing all of the motherly moments, she showed up ready to take her newborn pictures so that I could send out her birth announcements and have some sense of normalcy. See, when you are choosing your photographer you are really choosing a lifelong friend who will always do their best to help you remember these amazing times (even when it's really you sweating to death chasing after your twin two year olds).
Call me the most basic girl of all time ,but fall is my absolute favorite time of the year #sorrynotsorry. The weather is PERFECT and there are so many fun family things to do outside, especially here in Richmond. Every year on the top of my family's fall activity list is to visit a pump patch (or 2 or 3), so I wanted to share my favorite ones with you!
Chesterfield Berry Farm
This one is a bit of a hike for West Enders and those right in RIchmond, but I think it's well worth it. There is really something here for everyone. For the younger ones you have super fun barrel train rides, a petting zoo area, a corn sandbox (no clue the real name for this),a kids corn maze, and a hay bale play area complete with swinging ropes and slides. For the older kids there is paintball and a Scary Fun Barn.
Hanover Vegetable Farm
My family has always had the absolute best time here and I have to say I think this is the most relaxing pumpkin patch that we have ever visited, which is important when you have three children in tow. They have so many animals to feed and ohh and ahh over- horses, bunnies, goats. There is a big corn maze for the older crew and a little pallet one for the younger kiddos, a cornhole set up, a giant sand pit, and face painting.
LLoyd Family Farms
We make it a point every year to visit Lloyd Family Farms. They have the biggest pumpkin patch and there is such a great variety in pumpkin types-not just your typical orange. They offer horse rides, face painting, a giant sand pit, a small petting zoo, and they have a ton of food trucks come in every weekend (let's be honest- that's what we parents are really interested in). I love the down home farm feel that they have here and I have always found the employees to be so kind.
No matter which one you choose or if you visit all of them, I hope that you all have a great time enjoying this wonderful season with your families!
Hello and thank you for finding your way here! I am Courtney and I am so excited to relaunch the Housewives In The City and our Girl's Night Outs here in Richmond. I'm a Southside Virginia native who transplanted here and is now I'm a RVA lifer.
I'm a momma of 5 year old twin boys and a 3 year old little girl. My day to day favorite activities include questioning all of my parenting choices, finding new fun things to do, and wondering where on earth I put my diet coke(which I can't live without).
I love meeting new women and find that no matter our backgrounds, we all have so much more in common than we think. I hope to create a wonderful network of women who love to have fun at our events!
Stay tuned as I explore our beautiful city and come enjoy our first event in November!
Hi there! I'm Courtney . I am a mom of three ,a group fitness instructor, and a blogger. My favorite thing to do is to explore new fun things in the Richmond area with my family. I look forward to connecting with you through our Girl's Night Out events and social media.