Indecisiveness is heavy…& I feel you. You want to make the “RIGHT” decision for your future. After all you feel like your decision will impact so many and you want to make sure you think everything THROUGH.
✺You take time to think things over.
✺To future-pace any possible scenario.
✺To make sure it feels right.
✺To “sleep on it”.
✺To chat about it with your bff, your sister, your ex, your kids, your aunt and the next-door neighbour’s second-cousin who’s doing something similar to what you’re thinking.
This pattern is what most intelligent people call precaution, but I call stagnation. You’re keeping yourself stuck by holding back. And you know it sucks, because when you look at how long it’s taken to get to where you are, you know you’re ready to do better.
And you want to do better.
And, now, you GET to do better.
But that means doing things DIFFERENTLY. That means taking on a different THINKING PATTERN.
🧠The thought patterns that got you to HERE today, won’t take you THERE, to that road that you know is meant for you where you confidently ask for what you want and ACT on it immediately without needing confirmation nor validation from ANYONE.
Your ability to decide is a privilege. As the daughter of immigrant parents, I see that my parents only had one choice when they migrated to Canada with 3 kids, no previous knowledge of culture, land, professional landscape nor lifestyle. They only had ONE way to do things: to GRIND. They hustled. My father redid ALL his post-secondary engineering education and my mom worked as a seamstress from home. We lived off of my dad’s student loans until he landed his first high-tech job.
🌎 It’s different for us. We GET to choose. That’s why I say that the ability to decide is a privilege.
So how much longer are you going to sit on it? Whatever is calling you, I challenge you to look at it as a privilege and not a burden. You don’t HAVE to decide, you GET to decide.
⌛️Time will not help you decide.
But here’s what will: A focused session where you list out
💡 The possible outcomes,
🔦 What’s at risk and
☀️ What’s to gain
☝🏽 Your 1st next step
This is a quick exercise that can be done in minutes. Let’s do it together! Book your FREE clarity call at calendly.com/withinsightcoaching
Who is Dhouha? @dhouha.withinsight
Hello dear friend, I’m Dhouha Haddad, forever diversity activist & Clinical Social worker turned Speaker, Confidence/Emotional Intelligence Coach and Corporate Consultant.
I’m SO glad you’re here.
When I’m not coaching or training I’m probably curating my next coffee experience, at the beach here in Miami, or planning my next trip (with my husband & two daughters--who, I'm pretty sure will take over the world one day).
True story: My MISSION is to alter the DNA of the next generation. No biggie, right? 😅
I do this by supporting unique individuals, like you, to gather all your parts (past, emotions, dreams, goals, gifts, identities etc.) to CONFIDENTLY step into BOLD leadership & create your unique impact through your lifestyle, career and BUSINESS.