True story… my most intensive first years of personal growth and development were also the rockiest in my marriage and my social life was non-existent.
When you commit to your growth, it will feel messy at first, and that’s ok. You don’t need anyone’s approval to step into your power and start following your gut.
If you’re constantly trying to make someone else understands and agrees with where you’re headed, you’re wasting the best of your energy. No matter who they are. No matter how much you love them.
However, there are ways to go about YOUR goals without trolling on everyone else. This is not a F*CK EVERYONE AND GRIND article, AT ALL.
Here’s what to to instead:
#1. Figure out what you don’t want
#2. Focus on what you DO want
#3. Create more of that in your life
#4. Communicate what you’re thinking without waiting for nor expecting approval
#5. Accept the other’s answer as a projection of their mental map of the world
#6. Keep going
#7. Give love & empathy to all
#8. Love yourself before, during and through it all by upholding #1 to #7
Stop trying to make them "get it". Do what you're meant to do and your results will speak louder than anything. I get asked by many of my clients or audience about not having the support from their personal lives. And here is the truth:
It’s not anyone else’s job to believe in your vision and dreams. Only yours.
Those who are meant to get there with you will catch on and join you lovingly. Those who are meant to be there with you, will watch and probably never voice their respect + admiration, and that’s ok.
So tell me, who is really “holding you back”? Are you ready to let go of any reason of NOT succeeding and making your success a NON-NEGOTIABLE? Let’s make sure you’ve got your vision set and your next step figured out, book a free clarity call at calendly.com/withinsightcoaching
Who is Dhouha? @dhouha.withinsight
Hello dear friend, I’m Dhouha Haddad, forever diversity activist & Clinical Social worker turned Speaker, Confidence/Emotional Intelligence Coach and Corporate Consultant.
I’m SO glad you’re here.
When I’m not coaching or training I’m probably curating my next coffee experience, at the beach here in Miami, or planning my next trip (with my husband & two daughters--who, I'm pretty sure will take over the world one day).
True story: My MISSION is to alter the DNA of the next generation. No biggie, right? 😅
I do this by supporting unique individuals, like you, to gather all your parts (past, emotions, dreams, goals, gifts, identities etc.) to CONFIDENTLY step into BOLD leadership & create your unique impact through your lifestyle, career and BUSINESS.