We have had 2 AMAZING events recently and we are so thankful for the wonderful venues in Winston Salem for hosting us. We had our first Sunday event which was a huge success. The Canteen Market & Bistro provided our ladies with FREE wine tasting, great snacks and their seafood super was delicious. We have had some great local businesses that have been supporting us especially Winston Salem Cycle Bar and Sunshine energy drinks that helped fill our swag bags full of products. Chad's Chai came out to give our ladies samples and we even had free chair massages. Last week we had another great turnout at Joymongers Brewing and even had some live music. I am beyond excited for the future of HITC - WS. Our city has so many AMAZING things happening and I hope to help you explore new venues, provide you with networking opportunities and fun times.
July 28th - Canteen Market & Bistro
August 8th - Joymongers Barrel Hall
Canteen - My wonderful hubby to be Carl Weaver
Joymongers - Sara Muncy
Chad's Chai - https://chadschai.com/
Sunshine - Website: https://drinkthesunshine.com/
Facebook: Sunshine Beverages (@drinksunshine)
Rachel Ferraro - Evelyn Rose Boutique
Emily Stessman - Paparazzi
Jennifer Merritt - Mary Kay
I hope you will join us at our next event: September 12th @ Westbend Winery & Brewery.
We are still looking for vendors for our events in 2019 please email email@example.com
I have always been someone who puts other peoples needs before my own, but a few years ago I found myself stuck in a relationship where I felt I could never do something for myself. It took me hitting rock bottom to realize that I wanted to do something for myself, that would enable me to support myself financially, Ever since I was in high school I had dreamed of being. However being the free bird that I am, I dropped out of college to move to the beach, got a little distracted along the way, including boys and a move from England to the USA. Finally in 2017 I was fortunate enough to have my amazing fiance by side who encouraged and supported my decision to go back to college. I completed my associates degree in just 1 year and am now attending Western Caroline University to obtain my bachelors degree. Now I am not saying that this has been an easy journey, there has been times when I have been crying because I have too much to do and too little time, or I have been simply so overwhelmed I didn't know where to start. Last summer I managed to do 7 classes at once online with the community college, whilst also travelling for 5 weeks in Europe. So this summer I confidently figured I would be able to handle 5 classes at WCU. Everyone kept saying to me that I was taking on too much work especially with a new baby. They were soooo right, this has been one hell of a summer! It has been so hard having 5 tough classes, having my oldest baby home for the summer break and raising a new baby. I only had to take 3 out of the 5 classes, but I am crazy and am trying to get a minor in Psychology and my 24 hours in social studies on top of my bachelors. Now I have done very well with my classes all A's and B's, but it has come with a huge sacrifice as I have had hardly anytime to spend with my family. Now I have to remember though, that I am doing this so that I can have more time with my family and have time to make more memories in the future. I only have 1 year left so it will be so worth it in the long run. It has taken me so much determination and hours of hard work but I am driven by my ambition. Going back to college for me was not just the desire to have my bachelors but I really wanted to have a self-validating experience. Getting that postcard in the mail when I first made the Dean's list was so empowering and really showed me that I can do anything when I dream big. It would have been easy for me to take a semester off this summer and focus on all the reasons I couldn't do it. But instead I am proud of myself, we still have over 2 weeks until school starts and I am determined to make the most of that time with my babies and hubby to be. Also we have been renovating a an RV this summer, from the top down - but that is a whole other stressful story lol! The trend here is that all of my hard work leads to something beautiful. What do you want to do this year but have been scared to take that first step?
,With the hot weather here to stay for a while, I thought it was the perfect time to share some of my favorite British TV shows for you to enjoy in the AC. This is just a snippet of some I love, but be warned some of these are binge worthy.
The weather was perfect, the pizza was amazing and the drinks were cold! We had such a fun night with our wonderful local vendors and even enjoyed some local music, as it was open mic night later in the evening. There was a great atmosphere. I was so happy to see familiar faces of those returning and met lots of new ladies as well. All of our swag bags went like hot cakes! Thank you to everyone that came out to support us and participated in the event, we look forward to bringing more amazing evenings to Winston Salem in 2019! I hope you can join us at our next event.
July 28th 3-6pm @ Canteen Market & Bistro - FREE wine tasting - Sip & Shop
Get your free tickets at: https://wssipnshop.eventbrite.com
Incendiary Brewing Company
Cugino Forno Winston Salem
Johnson Coe Photography
Hannah Bourdreaux Burger - Arbonne
Jennifer Francis - Pure Romance
Gwen Sinclair - Color Street
pureromance.com/jfranHannah Boudreaux BergerHannah Boudreaux BergerHannah Boudreaux Berger
I am blessed with 2 beautiful happy, healthy little girls and I was so excited for the summer to start. But in all reality we have done nothing fun or excited so far this summer because I been so focused on life that I forget to live.
This summer started with the birth of my second daughter, who entered the world quickly and healthy. The 2 days in the hospital were a nice break from reality, we enjoyed room service, no cooking and were able to be together without many interruptions. But before I knew it we were back home and the reality of life started again. I am pursuing my bachelors degree so that I can become a teacher and so this summer I have 5 classes. So this year I am spending my summer trying to juggle having a new baby, spend time with my 6 year old, college, work, being a spouse and having time for myself. The reality is that I am barely surviving everyday, I find myself struggling to meet deadlines for college, struggling with finances, nearly forgetting to pay the bills, eating the same meals everyday and the list goes on. There is only so much time in the day, unfortunately I feel like I am spending so much time working and doing my classes that I am missing out on being present with my girls. The mom guilt is real. I don't know how many times I have felt like I am failing, like I am being a bad mom, being too short with the people I love because I am constantly feeling stressed.
It is a constant roller coaster of emotions and I don't stop feeling guilty for one reason or another:
I try to tell myself that I am dong all of this to provide for my family but in reality I am so busy that I forget to live in the moment.
I know these feelings are no one else fault, that it is me who’s the problem. I often feel that I am lost, as if I am playing the role of someone else and that maybe I am missing some chain of DNA that all mothers are supposed to possess.
These type of feelings are not healthy, they will eat you from the inside out and leave you feeling so negative about everything in life. I am not saying that I want to be perfect, because lets face it no one is perfect. But I do need to find some balance in my life, everyone keeps telling me I need to do something for myself. That when I take the time to have some me time I will be able to appreciate myself, feel rejuvenated and try to find some balance in my life. All of this guilt means that I care and I need to remember that when I feel down.
Motherhood is tough, women are emotional enough without adding something else to the plate but you know that I would not trade it for the world. I want us to all remember that we are all human, that if you formula or breastfeed your infant you are still a great mom. If you work full time or if you are a stay at home mom you are still great. Instead of focusing on the negatives in life, lets stand up and support each other. Because at some point in life we all need a friend, we need support, someone to cry or laugh with. Some of us may seem like we are strong people but we are just good at playing the part. Winston Salem Housewives is meant to be about empowering women and providing each other with support. So lets come together and do just that.
As you can see from some of the pictures we had a fun crowd tongiht at our event, it was nice to see so many familiar faces, meet some new ladies, we had some fantastic networking taking place and new friendships were formed. This group is about empowering women, lifting each other up, making new friends and providing opportunities to grow your businesses. Thank you to everyone that came out to support us and participated in the event, we look forward to bringing more amazing evenings to Winston Salem in 2019! We have two great events in July and hope you can join us.
July 18th @ Incendiary Brewing - Ladies night out & Networking event
July 28th @ Canteen Market & Bistro - FREE wine tasting - Sip & Shop
Fire Birds Grill
Sarah with Restoration Med Spa - https://www.facebook.com/RestorationMedicalSpa/
Allyson McElwaine with Noonday Collection - http://allysonmcelwaine.noondaycollection.com
Jennifer Merritt with Mary Kay - www.marykay.com/jmerritt2
Firstly I want to apologize for the lack of posts the past weeks but we have been busy adjusting to a family of 4. We welcomed our second daughter Juniper Orion into the world on May 29th weighing 7lbs 2.4 Oz's. She is a very healthy and happy newborn, but I forgot how difficult it can be juggling life's responsibilities and get enough sleep. I am a driven lady but often I take on too much. I signed up for 5 college classes this summer thinking that I would be able to handle everything, work, college, be a great mother and find time to enjoy life. Let me be honest to say that I feel like I am suffocating under everything, but life must go on and I need to be a strong role model for my girls so I will be facing the challenge head on.
After 9 months of waiting we are overjoyed to have our baby with us but the recovery period is real. For anyone that has just delivered or will be delivering don't punish yourself for being tired and feeling like you are living an emotional roller-coaster. Growing a human being is an amazing process but you cannot expect to recover quickly, remember to ask for help when you need it and take time for yourself. Full recovery from childbirth can take weeks even months, but remember what an amazing thing your body has done and that you deserve time to rest. Listen to your body, do not rush things, even if you only manage to sleep, rest and take care of your family that is enough, do not over do it.
I myself was not prepared for the abdominal pain, the birth itself was easier the second time around but the recovery pains were much worse, I was so excited to be able to sleep better, eat more, less acid reflex and enjoy an adult beverage but my body had other things in mind. I was in pain and had awful nausea. It is also 100% normal to feel sad even thought you should feel over joyed, 70-80% of women experience baby blues so remember you are not alone. Lets also not forget the constipation, hemorrhoids, perineum soreness, sore breasts, stitches, those wonderful sexy mesh underwear you get to wear at the hospital with the huge pads! Bear in mind that you will have a lot of water retention and that weight loss will take a while. I remember with my first that I must have lost at least 15 lbs after giving birth with the baby out, placenta and amniotic fluid but when I weighed myself I had only lost 5lbs. It took me months to loose the excess water I had taken on and I remember feeling really depressed about the way my body looked.
Remember that you are superwoman, you grew a human and gave new life to this crazy world we live in. You are not weak, you are human and we all need support sometimes. I have already worried that I will drop Juniper on the concrete and that I won't hear her in the night if something happens.
Spring has officially sprung in Winston Salem and the weather is meant to be beautiful, sunny but hot. I wanted to share some of my favorite things to do this month in the area with you, because we are so lucky to be surrounded by beauty in this wonderful part of North Carolina.
One of my favorite places to visit this time of year is Old Salem, with lots of opportunities for family fun, history, farmers markers and lots of great places to eat including my personal favorites the tavern and the tea room.
This weekend we have some fun local events to check out.
The 19th annual wine festival at Tanglewood Park: http://ncwinefestival.com/
Tanglewood has something for everyone walking trails, playgrounds, swimming pool, horse riding stables, golf, camping tennis and now even soft golf. It is a must for at least one trip this summer.
If music is your thing then check out the Gears & Guitars festival downtown at Bailey Park this weekend: https://www.gearsandguitarsfest.com/
Go support our local MILB team the Dash: https://www.milb.com/winston-salem
Its a great time for some family fun, Be sure to check out the website for the specials including Free Food Monday, taco Tuesday, Thirsty Thursdays and Fireworks Friday. It really is great affordable fun for everyone.
If you have never been to Historic Reynolda House they are holding a fantastic walking tour of the garden and grounds on May 31st 2019. http://reynoldahouse.org/calendar/event/historic-reynolda-grounds-and-gardens-walking-tour-0
Another fun event happening this month on 31st May is the WS Firefly Market with live music and local craft vendors. https://www.facebook.com/fireflymarketws
If you are like me and love fresh fruit this time of year take a trip and go strawberry picking at Hedgecock Strawberry Farm, 3011 Abbotts Creek Church Rd, Kernersville, NC 27284.
We had so much fun this month at our event, it was nice to see so many familiar faces and we had some fantastic networking taking place. This group is about empowering women, lifting each other up, making new friends and providing opportunities to grow your businesses. Thank you to everyone that came out to support us and participated in the event, we look forward to bringing more amazing evenings to Winston Salem in 2019! We hope you can join us at Firebirds Wood Fire Grill on June 25th 5:30pm - 8:30pm. 1215 Creekshire Way, Winston-Salem, NC 27103
Gypsy Road Brewing
Deneen Bryan - Hazel Grace Photography
Emily Stessman with Paparazzi - https://paparazziaccessories.com/117219/
Katelyn Hedrick with Beauty Counter
Amber Smith with Noonday Collection
The last month has been a complete blur, I reached my final month in my pregnancy and had college finals. I had been doing so well up until recently on balancing everything in my life and then suddenly overnight it all fell apart. I had so much going on but zero energy to achieve anything, the days turned into weeks and I found myself struggling every Sunday to get my college class work done. But I had say that I finished the semester with 2 A's and 2 B's, so I am pretty proud of myself overall, not my best semester but certainly not my worst. I am a determined lady, I never nap and love being busy so having this lack of energy is emotionally draining. But no one if perfect and as I have found out no two pregnancy's are the same, this little girl is stubborn already. Here I am now 36 weeks pregnant, had braxton hicks for 4 days some of which are very painful and feel like I am being tricked into thinking I am in labor everyday. My pregnancy with London was pretty each, no real complications and I had no braxton hicks at all. I just woke up at 8am not feeling quite right, lost my mucus plug, contractions started and she was born at 8pm that night. I am awful at not being in control and am not patient at all. I wanted to reach out to everyone and apologize for not being as active as I normally am but this baby girl is draining me. I am however every excited to be taking more time to focus on HITC this upcoming year and have some fun ideas in the works. I would love to know what events would get you excited, share your non profits with me and any other fun ideas you would be interested in doing. Hopefully I won't be waiting on this baby too much longer!